Question 1

I just booked with The Farmhouse! What are my next steps?

Accepted Answer

Thank you for booking The Farmhouse for your wedding! Please view the attached document for important next steps.

Question 2

When should we reserve our date? Is it ever too late?

Accepted Answer

Most of our couples reserve their date 9 to 15 months in advance - more notice may be required for very popular dates as they book up quickly! 
If you are looking to tie the knot even sooner than that, it's never too late! We can help plan your wedding up until the last minute, as long as we have your date open.

Question 3

How much does everything cost?

Accepted Answer

The total cost of your dream wedding at The Farmhouse varies depending on a number of factors including your date, number of guests, and selected menu/package.
 
Please ask us and we can put together an estimate for your wedding.

Question 4

Do you offer accomodations for guests or the couple?

Accepted Answer

Yes! We have a partnership with The Hilton Christiana, which includes a complimentary night stay for the couple, with discounted group rates and courtesy shuttle service (shuttle included with ten or more booked rooms; $150 fee if room minimum is not met).

Christiana Hilton - Katie McDevitt
302-631-1551
kmcdevitt@mjhotels.com

Question 5

Are there any vendor requirements?

Accepted Answer

We require all of our wedding packages to book a DJ or musician who is responsible for providing and setting up a speaker and microphone for the outdoor ceremony, as well as a separate sound system for the cocktail hour and reception. Check our contract for more detailed DJ requirements!
 
Desserts by Dana is our preferred bakery for the included wedding cake. If you prefer to use a different bakery for your cake, we do not offer a credit but you can use the included amount towards other bakery items (cupcakes, dessert table, etc.)

Question 6

Can we use our own caterer? Also, can we bring in our own alcohol?

Accepted Answer

The Farmhouse wedding packages include gourmet food made fresh on site for every event! As such, we do not allow outside caterers. 
 
The Farmhouse wedding packages also include a premium full bar package for four and a half hours (closed 30 minutes during dinner). While you can't bring in your own alcohol, please ask us for pricing if you would like something that is not included in the package.

Question 7

We see you have guest minimums? What if we do not reach that number?

Accepted Answer

The Farmhouse requires a minimum food and beverage dollar spend that is based on certain guest counts at our starting per person price. The guest counts vary depending on the day and month booked.
 
If you end up being below the guest count for your date, then you can always select higher priced meal options, additional hors d'oeuvres, and upgraded bar options to reach the minimum dollar spend.

Question 8

Are you LGBTQ+ inclusive?

Accepted Answer

YES! We want everyone to feel welcome and comfortable in booking their dream wedding at The Farmhouse!
 
To ensure this experience, we only recommend and partner with vendors that feel the same way that we do about equality. We have also made sure that our contract and marketing materials portray the inclusion of every gender, race and sexual preference.

Question 9

Does our wedding have to start/end at a certain time and when can we arrive?

Accepted Answer

Weekday weddings must start at 5:00 or later with the exception of weddings in November through February, which are permitted to start at 4:00 or later. All wedding receptions must end by midnight, so the latest start time permitted is 6:30 for the ceremony and 7:00 for the reception. 
 
Our packages include 30 minutes for the ceremony and five hours for the reception (which will start immediately following the ceremony) - for a total of five and a half hours if you are having both at The Farmhouse.
 
We also include an hour prior to the ceremony for your arrival and use of the facility, dressing suites and grounds - any additional time beforehand must be purchased for $150 per hour.

Question 10

Who will setup decorations for my wedding? Are there any restrictions?

Accepted Answer

The Farmhouse will take care of setting up most decorations for your wedding (with the exception of those requiring professional installation).
 
Restrictions:
Nothing can be hung on the ceilings or walls
Candles must be enclosed in glass
Alcoholic favors or decorations must be purchased through The Farmhouse
No bubbles are permitted inside at any time.  No glitter or confetti allowed on the property at any time.
Use of sparklers is permitted but only with pre-approval by The Farmhouse
If you choose to decorate the ceremony pergola/arbor, you must have someone in charge of installing those decorations. Nothing can be stapled or nailed into the pergola - everything must be tied on (we recommend zip ties!).

Question 11

Can we include our dog in our special day?

Accepted Answer

We welcome your furry family members during the ceremony portion only. We do require that someone other than the wedding couple is in charge of your dog(s) at all times.
 
While we wish they could stay for the party, all dogs must be taken home and off the property after the ceremony has concluded.

Question 12

Do you have any rental item upgrades we could use? Find our Farmhouse Rental Packages here!

Question 13

Need the measurements of our ceremony pergola, bay window, sweetheart table, or accent tables? Find our Useful Measurements document here!

YOU ASKED... WE ANSWERED

I just booked with The Farmhouse! What are my next steps?

When should we reserve our date? Is it ever too late?

How much does everything cost?

Do you offer accomodations for guests or the couple?

Are there any vendor requirements?

Can we use our own caterer? Also, can we bring in our own alcohol?

We see you have guest minimums? What if we do not reach that number?

Are you LGBTQ+ inclusive?

Does our wedding have to start/end at a certain time and when can we arrive?

Who will setup decorations for my wedding? Are there any restrictions?

Can we include our dog in our special day?

Do you have any rental item upgrades we could use? Find our Farmhouse Rental Packages here!

Need the measurements of our ceremony pergola, bay window, sweetheart table, or accent tables? Find our Useful Measurements document here!

info@thefarmhousede.com
5600 OLD CAPITOL TRAIL
WILMINGTON, DELAWARE
302-999-8477

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YOU ASKED... WE ANSWERED

I just booked with The Farmhouse! What are my next steps?

When should we reserve our date? Is it ever too late?

How much does everything cost?

Do you offer accomodations for guests or the couple?

Are there any vendor requirements?

Can we use our own caterer? Also, can we bring in our own alcohol?

We see you have guest minimums? What if we do not reach that number?

Are you LGBTQ+ inclusive?

Does our wedding have to start/end at a certain time and when can we arrive?

Who will setup decorations for my wedding? Are there any restrictions?

Can we include our dog in our special day?

Do you have any rental item upgrades we could use? Find our Farmhouse Rental Packages here!

Need the measurements of our ceremony pergola, bay window, sweetheart table, or accent tables? Find our Useful Measurements document here!

info@thefarmhousede.com 5600 OLD CAPITOL TRAIL WILMINGTON, DELAWARE 302-999-8477

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Wedding Packages

DELAWARE'S PREMIER WEDDING VENUE

info@thefarmhousede.com
5600 OLD CAPITOL TRAIL
WILMINGTON, DELAWARE
302-999-8477

DOWNLOAD OUR
2026